You might not know you’re doing it…
It might not be politically correct to say so, but often, parents do play favourites. It might be something you’re doing unconsciously but it’s worth it to be more self-aware to ensure your children’s development isn’t negatively harmed.
If you have more than one child, you need to be considerate of giving each child equal love, care, and attention. Remember, just as parents are different, so too are children. Consequently, the way we express our love to each child will be different and may be perceived negatively by his or her siblings.
Playing favourites can harm your child’s wellbeing and development. The “left-out” child may feel neglected, alone, and as if she is doing something wrong if she feels you are not affectionate and caring with her.
Take for example, a child who is hyperactive as opposed to a child that is calm. The hyperactive child may be more inclined to “naughty” behaviour, and as such get disciplined more often than the calm child. The hyperactive child may then perceive this treatment that you are approving more of the calm child’s behaviour, even though you know that is not the case.
The trick is to figure out how your child would like love to be expressed to him/her. For some children, love may be signified by praise and affection, while for another it is being given challenges and being stimulated. Often the way in which your child chooses to express their love to you is how they, in turn, would like it to be expressed to them.
The first step is to be aware that it happens, and to find help or support from partners, family members, friends, or health professionals – to try to understand why it happens. Watch for your own stress levels, some research shows that parenting stress can play a role in your favouritism.
When your child complains or you see fights between siblings in which they mention one getting more than another, try not to discount it. Be receptive to the child’s feelings and think about why they might be feeling this way.
Avoid comparing children. While it may be a natural tendency to say “why can’t you be more like your sister?” this sets up an unfair comparison. Try to focus on what each child does well, without pitting them against one another.
Try to spend one-on-one time with each child, doing things that are special and unique to just that child. This will go a long way in fostering a caring, supportive relationship between you and your children.
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